Do You Make Love A Priority
So many people are looking for something. They’re looking for that loving relationship, but what are they doing about it? They still stay at home. They still don’t go online because they hear all these stories that men cheat and lie. They still hang out with the same friends. They still can’t talk to a guy they like. They still give off an energy that’s not attractive to men. It’s not working for them.
Until you make something a priority in life, it’s not going to happen because you’ve got to focus your energy to work out in your head what you need to do different to have what you want, because what’s in our external world right now is the results of where we are today. If the results are not there, you’ve got to ask yourself the question, “Why not? What can I do differently?” Believing it will just happen is one of the greatest mistakes people make.
I speak to women all the time. There was a lady that met me once. She was in her 60’s and grew up very isolated as a child and repeated this pattern through school, in her job, and was living alone at home. The isolation was keeping her single because she never broke that pattern in her life that was stopping her from having what you want.
It’s the same when a woman who says, “Oh, I can’t talk to the guy I like.” If you can’t talk to the guy you like this year, you’re not going to be able to talk to him next year until you do something different. Make love a priority in your life by saying, “Okay, I want a loving relationship with a great guy.
What do I need to do or who do I need to become to make that happen?” Because what we focus on grows. Where we put our attention, we start to energize the muscle inside of us to make what we want a reality. That’s a really important key to any area of your life and to dating. You want that great guy? What are you doing about it?
I spoke to women in 2014 that are still single and we’re heading into 2016. That’s two years. Why? Because they’re not ready to make the internal change shift inside of them to have what they want. You want love? Make it a priority.
Lorna is a dating coach who helps savvy, smart successful women who are single find love with a great guy by showing you how to master the dating phase. Find out how to flirt with the guy you like by getting your hands on this: 15 Fun & Flirty Conversation Starters That Get The Hot Guy To Notice You.