Recongise it and talk about. Men’s Sexual Shame this is a real and raw conversation around the challenging topic of Men’s sexual shame. This issue affects people of all genders because the lack of an honest conversation around it is leaving men having shame about their shame which means it is usually not dealt with. it affects his ability to have true intimacy with his partners and to create that fulfilling love we all crave in and outside the bedroom.

About Robert Kandell

Hailed as “part football coach, part loving dad, and part slightly crazed drill sergeant” Robert Kandell spent the last sixteen years helping people re-energize their lives and build better relationships through more honest and authentic connection.

After building a successful consulting firm in San Francisco, he then took his business acumen and co-founded OneTaste in 2004 with Nicole Daedone. Taking on the challenging task of bringing conscious sexuality to the mainstream market, Robert built the company from scratch to a high seven-figure international corporation. He left OneTaste in 2014 to start his own Consulting firm helping small businesses become marketable and profitable.

Robert is also an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer. He brings his enthusiasm and acumen to his weekly podcast, Tuff Love, on subjects around relationships, intimacy, communication and gender dynamics.

Show Highlights

  • I am fit guy, I am healthy and I have body shame and it is not talked about enough
  • Every guy you know has some form of sexual shame
  • You walk into the room uneducated trying to be an expert
  • We live in a society of disapproval- whatever you do, you are doing it wrong
  • Men are taught their mastery in the bedroom is the definition of a man
  • Talk to that one friend, we all suffer from thinking we are the only one experiencing what we are going through. When you open up, you find out lots of people are going through the same experience as you
  • How to spot the man you are with is hiding his shame

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