Are you dating a guy right now and you don’t know what his intentions are with you. You really like him and you would like it to work out but you can’t tell how much he has invested in the relationship.
What out for these clues if he is emotionally available or not
1. He always has an excuse when you want to talk
Is there some burning question you would love to ask your new partner but have not because you fear his reaction or maybe you have tried to talk about something important to you and it got brushed aside because your man was too busy. This is one of the clear cut signs you are dating an emotionally unavailable man.
When a man wants you, he will make you a priority in his life and making time for you and what you have to say won’t be a problem.
2. He might accuse you of being over-sensitive or needy
You tried to approach the conversation several times he has not given you an answer and now he is accusing you of being over-sensitive or needy every time you open his mouth. When the guy put it back on you be careful of this.
3. He loves to delay progression
Throughout the course of your relationship different big matters are going to present themselves like establishing if you are an item, whether you want a family together, if you both want to get married, what religion your children will be, buying a house you get the picture as the relationship evolves your guy is either going to become more emotionally unavailable or less depending on where his thoughts are with you in his future. So what out and notice if he is delaying or vaguely agreeing to your future desires.
4. He is never there when you need him
Have you ever gone out with a guy maybe you were sleeping with him or the terms of what you both are where never fully established. You find when you are with him he is attentive and amazing but the times between are sporicidal. This guy is never going to give you what you need because he not looking for what you want. So watch out for the guy who is all about you when your with him but when you really think about it you spend more times alone than with him.
5. He is not talking about the future
The emotionally unavailable guy is not always invested in the outcome, he not always thinking long-term. Notice how he speaks about you, him and your time together. Are you included in his future plans?
You can’t change anyone and you can’t change your guys mind. Men are emotionally unavailable for several reasons maybe he fears you won’t like what he says to say, he is comfortable where he is right now, he just out of a serious relationship.
The important thing hear is to know what you want and find a guy who will give you all of those things wanting an unavailable guy to be available is keeping you stuck.
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