What do you think? Should you wait to have sex and if so, how long? Do you wait a couple of dates, a couple of months or what about waiting till you are married? Chenier talks to me about men’s view on sex and how as a woman maybe waiting till marriage is not always a bad thing.
About Chenier A. Alston
Chenier A. Alston is Senior Pastor of New Israelite Missionary Baptist Church in Chicago, Illinois. He is a graduate of Moody Bible Institute where he holds a B.A. in Pastoral Studies with an emphasis in pastoral care and counseling. A speaker and counselor on life, Chenier Alston has emerged as one of the leading voices on relationship topics and issues.
He is the author of the book “Ladies Let’s Talk! Relationship Real-Talk From a Man’s P.O.V.” which is directed to ladies on issues of dating and relationships from a man’s point of view.
He is currently in pursuit of his Doctoral degree in which he plans to open counseling centers across the county. Chenier A. Alston’s motto in life is: “Live out your purpose so that your purpose can out live you; become a movement and not a monument!”
- Sex should never define a relationship
- Sex can be both beautiful and also confusing
- At some point you must define your own worth, your value
- Find out what you want & who you are and that will help you determine your course
- This is my standard
Ladies, let’s talk! …Take control of your mind and stop thinking along the lines of revenge. The steps to forgiveness: 1) Realize that you have been hurt, 2) Recognize that you did not deserve to be hurt and 3) Release the person that hurt you from the condemnation of hurting you. … So ladies, choose revival over revenge… And that is relationship real-talk!” They spoke, I listened and then it was time for me to speak while they listened and learned.
Ladies, I want to take this time to invite you into these conversations or as I put it “Relationship Real-Talks”. These Relationship Real-Talks invited me into a world of ex-wives displaced by divorce, third option girlfriend, mistresses, women burdened with baggage, women who were sexually and physically abused and confused – and the list goes on. As you sit down and read these conversations, you are going to experience what I call “Transitional Relationship Therapy”. To get your copy of Ladies, let’s talk! Relationship Real-Talk From a Man’s P.O.V go to amazon here.
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